Exploring Kink

Go boldly (or meekly) where you have never gone before!

exploring kink

Life is meant to be enjoyed. Discovering your sexuality and embracing all of the new and wonderful experience can be many things for many people, exhilarating, exciting, terrifying. It all depends on your outlook. But, one thing is for certain, if you want to have these experiences, you have to take that first step.

The following are writings that fall under that general description (though they may also be listed elsewhere.)


  • Cuck You & the whores you rode in on
    Cuck you & the whores you rode in on (drove into) I am a cuck. This was originally posted on FetLife on November 16, 2015. I removed it during one of my profile purges. I am reposting it now in preparation for my interview with Dr David Ley […]
  • Cock and Ball Torture (Fetish Philes 2)
    Cock and Ball Torture Not your psychotherapist’s CBT Tonight’s show won’t be broadcast live. However, a new episode of Fetish Philes will be available for your listening pleasure (I hope it is a pleasure) at 7 pm ET. Fetish Philes, […]
  • Pageism (Stereo-Typed 22/Fetish Philes 1)
    Pageism with Paige, The Pageist A year in the making … The anniversary of my first appearance on TPOK Radio is on May 1st. I have come a long way from being a reluctant guest on The 3rd Rail. Since then, I have appeared on The Rainbow […]
  • Conference Road Trip the 1st: AltSex NYC 2017
    Stereo-Typed @AltSexNYC 2017 Achievement Unlocked: Attend a Conference Thanks in part to my Sugar Daddy Collective, Stereo-Typed is heading out on its first road trip to The Big Apple. My bags are packed and I’m ready to go! I am stoked and […]
  • Under Development – The Fetish Philes
    Introducing … Fetish Philes What are the Fetish Philes? It is a new segment on Stereo-Typed. If things go well (and I have enough support from my Sugar Daddy Collective), this may become a new stand-alone show (or podcast) on TPOK Radio. […]
  • I don’t think that means what you think it means; or, words have meaning
    Words mean something Meaning: noun What is meant by a word, text, concept, or action (Oxford Dictionary) We live in this wonderful culture of freedom. Personal freedom, personal expression, they are wonderful things. I love that I can be myself, I […]
  • FetLife; Your Golden Ticket to the Wonky World of BDSM
    Congratulations! You found the golden ticket! FetLife is the largest social networking site for kinky people. For new people, just discovering the wonderful world of BDSM, finding FetLife could feel like finding the golden ticket in a Wonka Bar. […]
  • Consent: How do you take your tea?
    Tea and Consent By now, I’m sure most of you have heard the tea analogy for consent.  If not, you can see it done below. It was put out there as a simple method of understanding consent, but is it enough? I don’t believe it is. It covers […]
  • Sexual Authenticity: Decoding Your Kink (Episode 16)
    Decoding Your Kink is a roadmap to Sexual Authenticity When I first discovered Galen Fous’ book, I thought, “Oh, another BDSM 101“, but I decided to read it anyway. I firmly believe that this old dog can learn new tricks. […]
  • Etiquette: The Bank of Life
    Etiquette: The Bank of Life This is an excerpt from Emily Post’s Etiquette, published in 1922. Please note that this book is available on Project Gutenberg, and is in the public domain. This passage can be summed up by the adage “you get […]
  • A journey of a thousand miles …
    A Single Step 千里之行,始於足下 A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step ~Laozi Another collection of scattered thoughts coughed up like a furball We call this thing a journey for a reason Growth, self-discovery, the discovery of those around […]
  • What has FetLife ever done for us?
    Apart from: allowing us to friend, follow, and interact privately with other kinky people, allowing us to create and post events so we can find fun things to do, adding a group component so we can have discussions with multiple people at once, […]
  • The 4Cs of BDSM (Episode 13)
    From “SSC” and “RACK” to the “4Cs”: Introducing a new Framework for Negotiating BDSM Participation. The existing models don’t quite do it. Within the BDSM community, we use phrases like “safe, sane and […]
  • Dancing with your Shadow (Episode 8)
    Shadow Dancing; Fantasy, Reality and all points in between On Wednesday, October 5th, I will be joined by Dr Michael Aaron, author of the upcoming book, Modern Sexuality: The Truth About Sex and Relationships to talk about sexual fantasies and our […]
  • Tell Me A Story (Episode 6)
    Tell Me A Story Imagine that you are planning on having a scene with someone. What elements are you considering? Your toys? Your techniques? Where and when? Perhaps, you are contemplating adding psychological elements to your play. These are all […]

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References   [ + ]

1. most have been posted on FetLife
2. “Fetish.” Merriam-Webster.com. Accessed March 20, 2017. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish
3. “Phil.” Merriam-Webster.com. Accessed March 20, 2017. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/Phil.
4. Now rolled into the TPOK Live archives on Spreaker
5. I really wish I could find it now, it was a brilliant piece if I do say so myself
6. Now an ex-partner because of situations like this
7. Hell, we see a lot of Verucas on-line