Rats in Jackets – A model of fetish development Where do sexual fetishes come from? Well, tonight, we are going to explore one possible cause for sexual fetishes. As you may recall, some time ago, I spoke with Dr Michael Aaron on episode 8 about fetishes, partialisms and other sexual interests. During that conversation, he spoke … [Read more…]
Threesomes, Bromances and the Decline of the One-Time Rule of Homosexuality What is a threesome, you ask? Well, you probably aren’t asking as I am sure you likely already know the answer. Some of you have already engaged in one and many of you probably fantasize about them, but for clarity, I’ll give a definition … [Read more…]
I recently had the pleasure of speaking with Eyal Matsliah from IntimatePower.com about orgasms. Women can experience over 20 different types of orgasm … and while we didn’t have the time to discuss them all, we did speak about explosive versus implosive as a broader category. We also discussed turning sexual energy inward and harnessing … [Read more…]
Let’s Talk About S.E.C.S., Baby! I think that we can all agree that sex education in many countries, including the USA and Canada, is woefully lacking. Most high school curricula either focus on abstinence practices or are restricted to the mechanics of sex and how to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. But sex and … [Read more…]
Psychological Play? Or Abuse? Motive Matters On October 11th, I will be talking to Sue Storm, host of In Bed with Dr Sue. We will be talking about a few topics, but they are all related. They deal with motive. Humiliation Play is a form of psychological play where the Top intentionally degrades the bottom. … [Read more…]
Hold me close Touch. It is a human need and one that many people are craving. We live in the digital age. For many people, an average day involves going to work, then returning home. The bulk of their interactions with friends and family is on-line. It has never been easier to stay in touch … [Read more…]
My Successful Sexless Marriage I have been married for 25 years. On July 5, 2017, my husband and I will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary and we have a happy, healthy sexless marriage. Sexual Incompatibility – we have that in spades. Our libidos are out of synch, we share no kink interests and my … [Read more…]
Going with the Flow Menophilia is simply the love (philia) of menstrual blood. This sexual interest is also sometimes called “Flow” and performing oral during the monthly period has become known as “earning your red wings”. Menstruation is a natural thing. All female-bodied individuals with a healthy reproductive system do it. So why is it … [Read more…]
You want me to what?! Are you cuckoo?? Cuckoldry. What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word? Do you think of a husband who can’t satisfy his wife so she cheats on him? Or, maybe you think of some poor schmuck who has been duped into raising another man’s children, … [Read more…]
BDSM Research Opportunity Your chance to be heard A current BDSM research study: The Pfaus Laboratory for Sexual Neuroscience and Cognition is currently conducting a descriptive study to examine the diversity of BDSM sexual practices among the general population and the level of physical/psychological well-being of its practitioners in North America. The study is called … [Read more…]
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